But he’s a good man.

He might have broken your heart,
But he’s a good man.
He might have misbehaved with you,
But otherwise he’s a good man.
He might have tried to take advantage of your drunk state,
But he’s actually a good man.
He might have made false promises,
But you know, he’s a good man.
He might have cheated on you,
Otherwise he’s a good man.
He might have molested you,
But in all other aspects, he’s a good man.
He might have treated you without respect,
But he’s otherwise a good man.
He might have twisted your words or even arms,
But keeping that aside, he’s a good man.
He might have been a jerk to you,
But you should know that he’s good to everyone.
He might have ruined your mental health,
But apart from that, he’s a good man.

Dont defend your cis male friends who have wronged someone. Speak up. If not, at least don’t defend them. It encourages wrong behaviour and invalidates the other person’s struggle.